Before you say your wife is no longer romantic, remember what she has been through…
How do you expect your wife to be as romantic as your side chick when she has:
- Carried your children five times
- Gone through labour five times
- Attended countless antenatal and postnatal clinics
- Breastfed for years
- Done school runs every morning and evening
- Cared for sick children in the hospital
- Cooked, cleaned, and maintained the home for years
You, as the husband, are responsible for:
- The stretch marks on her belly
- The sagging breasts
- The surgical scars from C-sections
- Countless sleepless nights
- Morning sickness
- Loss of appetite and swollen nose
- Emotional stress and exhaustion
She has sacrificed her peace of mind, her body, and her social life just to keep the family running. And yet all you say is, “She’s not romantic anymore” — just because you’re comparing her to a side chick?
Can that side chick survive what your wife has survived?
Will she handle hospital visits, morning stress, cooking, cleaning, pregnancy, and raising five children?
Dear men, value your wives!
Life is not all about romance and physical beauty. Look back at who your wife was before marriage — full of energy, dreams, and hope — and ask yourself: What happened?
You happened.
Appreciate your wife. Support her. Love her. Protect her. Not every woman can endure the load she has carried for years.
God bless every strong woman, every loving wife, and every mother holding it down. 🙏❤️